December 17, 2007

How do I react? Seriously!!

So, while minding my own business and keeping the f***-off face, I got those texts... the icing on my beautiful day...

"Happy Eid ya (my name), and happy eid to beano and mocha too, our 2 angels, ya rab tekoony betkalemeehom kowayes 3anny, i wish you do that. Really, God knows my good intend for all of us & for your family. Happy eid, ya rab 3id sa3eed 3aliko, we ya rab ye'adimlina el kheir ya binty. Take care of u, dayman bad3eelik bel kowayes fe sery we fi salaty we 3azrek walahy. but!"

followed by this...

"Btw, don't forget 2 fast 2morrow we 3and el fitar ed3y bel khair ya (my name) we isA, rabina ye2ademlek dayman el khair ya om el 3eyal. I wish u get my msgs in good intent"

Will someone please tell me what to do, this is not good for my general health! i did not reply or even show any signs of reactions, but I am boiling underneath.....


*Maintaining my "Depressed Bit$#" mode and updating it to "Depressed Angry BitS#" Mode

21 comments:

Samar said...

" dayman bad3eelik bel kowayes fe sery we fi salaty we 3azrek walahy. but!"

seriously!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG....does he really believe that??????!!!!!!

If I were u...I would have sent him a message telling him "thanx 4 the advice...I'll sure fast and I'll sure pray that I'll never have 2 see ur face again or deal with ur crap anymore...GET THE HELL OUT OF MY LIFE"

Happy eid 4 u and ur cute kids and to all ur family...hope u'll be in the "eid mood" regardless of all the $hit u have to deal with..

embee said...

I've mostly been a lurker on your blog, but seriously, I can't keep it to me this time. I know I'm in no position to comment or whatever, since it's your marriage & your kids, but seriously, you're way better off without the dude. That's too much baggage for anyone to put up with.

Out Loud.... said...

He is a piece of work !!!

Mash alah is he an actor or something ??

Sebak mno bgd we tanshy khales

" Happy Eid for ur cute 2 little boys "

Hope u enjoy it

insomniac said...

samar, the serious problem is that i think he really believes it :s

sending him a msg like that, would be giving him exactly what he wants out of me: an angry reaction with angry text on his mobile to show everyone in his friends and family what an ungrateful piece of shit i am :) i can picture him saying "ana kont ba2olaha kalam kowayes ahoh, 7atta shoofo"...

thanks girl for your eid wishes... right back at ya

insomniac said...

embee, u can always say whatever u have in mind, ur most welcomed, as long as i have comment space really!

and u do have an interesting blog that i lurk around as well btw :)

so yeah, i am better off, that i already know.. i want off for real ba2a!!

insomniac said...

out loud, ana mitanesh awalahy, bas demaghy betewga3ny... i want to return the harm in a way for a change!

happy eid to u and ur family as well, and welcome to my blog :)

Ma -3lina said...

ٍHey sorry there has been a mistake
I am "Out Loud" bs I replied by mistake bel other username

Anyway Happy feast 4 u nd ur kids again :))

hurricane_x said...

la2 begad... *APPLAUSE*
sorry, I couldn't help laughing :D
How did he have the guts to send u this?!
Either he's seeking a sudden nervous breakdown for u or he just forgot about ur gallbladder!
law kammelt halaba'7 !!!

Happy feast for u and the kids, wekabary dema'3ek. Everything is gonna be ok soon 2ensha2 Allah :)

insomniac said...

ma-3alina... np :) happy eid again :))


hurricane, i really don't get the reason behind these kinds of actions of his!! and yeah, el marara khalas etfa2a3et, 3ayez eh tany, lol

la la2, kammel kammel, labakh bera7tak... wala 2a2olak, here is the msg he sent me ba3d el 3ehsa:

"da3etlek walahy we ana baftar, ya rab enty wel malayka bto3na tekony be khair, kol sana wenty tayeba we homa we 3eltek bekhair, leky 3andy a good eid isa son ya sety"

i wonder what he meant by the last part!! 7ases be mosiba gayaly, ya lateef ya lateef

Kol sana winta tayeb ya hurricane, u and ur family and all those u like...

Anonymous said...

lollllllll, heyya mosiba gayalek fe3lan...

Despite the fact that I don't know this guy except from what I read on your blog, he seems very much like a sly person and trying to either make you feel bad, or make himself feel good about himself.

In either case, its a lame excuse and you'd better ignore such messages when they come.

The least likely option enno ebtada ye7ess be emtek truly and he is fully realizing the reality of what is happening around him. This does not mean that his actions will change if he is given a second chance; what I mean is that he simply wants to convince himself enno 3amal elli 3aleh we zeyada le7add the very last minute.

I hope I am making sense here!

Kol sana wenti tayeba! Have a nice break in Alex!

Jade said...

Kol sana wenty tayeba ya Amar...
But you cant blame the man for trying.
I respect your silence & your ability to not reply...

Cheers!
xxx

insomniac said...

anon, happy eid, thanks for checking...

u figured him out.. he's trying to feel good about himself so that he can tell his semi-dead conscience "ana 3amalt elly 3alaya"...

as for 7as be 2emty, he will, in time... i really know he will.... and i also know that he will do whatever he can to shake off the bitterness he will feel then.... but i also know he won't change the way he acts or behaves...

touche

insomniac said...

wenty tayeba ya joujou

but i do blame him for trying!! i blame him for making it drag that way when he knows i will never be back...

if he wanted to make amends, he would have started by giving me the honorable treatment i deserved or the civil divorce i asked for... instead he's denying me the least of my rights, and telling me he wishes me the best.... how screwed up is that???

i am being silent only because i have nothing to say to him that he would listen to... got tired of wasting my breath really :)

embee said...

Hope you're having an incredible Eid hun. I have some silent audience. Wow xD

Nora said...

Well...
I have been trying to think of a reply.. and none seemed good enough.

If I were you I would reassure him that prayer is good and how you have faith that his prayers will be answered because he has been such a good muslim...
oh wait.. maybe he should just give up!

Anyway, I hope you are enjoying your Eid and relaxing. Hope you finally got rid of that cold babe!

insomniac said...

embee, thanks for the eid wishes... yeah silent audience until, i finally feel like i have something worth adding :)

hope u had a good eid too :)


Nora, i couldn't come up with a good enough reply either!! he doesn't get sarcasm too, so it will be on me!!

my eid was ok, still have the cold tho:( hope urs was better :)

Nora said...

Ouch! That cold seems to not be going away! Are you taking meds?
Hope you feel better...

How could you have married a person who doesn't get sarcasm! :o)

insomniac said...

i mistook the way he ridiculed others for sarcasm.... i was too young to see him for what he was i suppose....

Nora said...

Ok..
Hey...
I sense you not being in a good mood!
Cheer up and smile!!!!

Яαgιи Яαvєи said...

Forget about it girl. You're better than this.

insomniac said...

nora, i don't think i was in my best mood, but it's true still :)

i am cheering up whenever i get a chance :)


RR, moving on i can do, forgetting is the trick....

thanks though :) hope ur eid rocked :))