tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post1481310408889856382..comments2023-09-04T15:08:41.137+03:00Comments on My Oblivia: A reoccurring thought!insomniachttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10143064182385250795noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-29178035282672808362008-06-25T09:12:00.000+03:002008-06-25T09:12:00.000+03:00O's :))ya benty howa 7ad etkallem 3aleeky :)) we k...O's :))<BR/><BR/>ya benty howa 7ad etkallem 3aleeky :)) we kaman enty 3arfa anwa3 el genan elly 3andy we 3and el ekhwa :))))<BR/><BR/>i know i shouldn't compare... bas we both know that there are things it's expected of families to do, not friends!! and the fact that some families refrain because of a list of shockingly silly reasons and justifications makes me unwillingly and unconsciously compare!!<BR/><BR/>God bless both alright... we yehdy!!insomniachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10143064182385250795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-67807843734652049672008-06-25T04:45:00.000+03:002008-06-25T04:45:00.000+03:00What about a cousin-cousin relationship?:))Take it...What about a cousin-cousin relationship?:))<BR/>Take it easy my dear, mat7awleesh tekarni 3elaktek belnas beba3d! ya3ni friends r friends, sisters r sisters & parents r parents! u just go 2 each one when u need something from her/him that others can't do or even feel!! <BR/>GOD bless both; friends & family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-13211568519838355292008-06-24T16:31:00.000+03:002008-06-24T16:31:00.000+03:00thanks R :)and ur right, and so is rasha... this i...thanks R :)<BR/><BR/>and ur right, and so is rasha... this is why i am starting to be reconvinced that friendship is the most fulfilling kind of relationships :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>adam,<BR/><BR/>i'm glad u finally decided to pick a <I>name</I> and good choice :)))insomniachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10143064182385250795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-29023755536056289642008-06-24T16:00:00.000+03:002008-06-24T16:00:00.000+03:00I love it toocouldn't take up 3bd el mo3een bsra7a...I love it too<BR/><BR/>couldn't take up 3bd el mo3een bsra7aUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17417868241817070400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-67365796709009004292008-06-24T12:04:00.000+03:002008-06-24T12:04:00.000+03:00I agree with Rasha.. i think friends are the ppl u...I agree with Rasha.. i think friends are the ppl u deliberately choose to be like ur family , and that's why u try to be super careful not to lose them.<BR/><BR/>salamet senanek ya inso , and btw i hate the guys from the resort..kaman leehom 3een to make fun of u !!! it's a shame aslan to have bugs or stuff of the sort in this so called 5 stars.<BR/><BR/>RAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-7002364794320203742008-06-24T11:50:00.000+03:002008-06-24T11:50:00.000+03:00D,i forgot to mention something... i only work on ...D,<BR/><BR/>i forgot to mention something... i only work on few flaws; other than that, i actually like some of my flaws and cherish them :-/ <BR/><BR/>i've been told it was my way for rationalizing, but i don't care i like those flaws nonetheless :))<BR/><BR/>i like being harsh on myself because i'd rather do it myself than have people being harsh on me! <BR/><BR/><BR/>rasha,<BR/><BR/>u have no idea how i malfunction with my bigger family because of being strict when it comes to my likes and dislikes and what i accept of them... my bigger family stopped hurting me the day i kept my distance and detached myself... social visits and occasional catching up never harmed anyone... yes i have an uncle here and aunt there whom i could shoot dead if i had to communicate with on regular basis, so i just detach... it's a delicate balance especially when u have a father like mine who preaches day and night about selat el ra7em... i am still trying to gather my thoughts and logic in order to sit him down and talk him into letting me move out.... my mom gave me an amina rez2 kinda reaction, knowing baba, hey3mel feeha ma7moud el meleegi!!<BR/><BR/>i did not mean to be cruel when i said i wasn't a good enough daughter, sister, wife or mother... i know i am not because of the expectations my parents, my sisters, my x had of me... and i am afraid i'd let my kids down that way especially that i have been too stressed to be of any good to them! perhaps i could have been a better daughter to different parents, or a better sister to different siblings and a better wife to a different husband, it no longer matters to me, but it scares the crap out of me if i can't be a good mom to my monsters because i most certainly can't be a better mom to other kids... i am not a big fan of kids aslan, fa ya welady ya mafeesh :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>adam, <BR/><BR/>(whether it's your name or an alias, i love than name, i wanted to call my first born Adam but i ended up with beem)<BR/><BR/>i think being more tolerant, more understanding and more flexible is in every friend's job description... i am glad mine excel at being friends :)insomniachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10143064182385250795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-29619190531830487892008-06-24T10:10:00.000+03:002008-06-24T10:10:00.000+03:00Orthat your friends are simply better people than ...Or<BR/><BR/>that your friends are simply better people than your family(ies)<BR/><BR/>and by better I mean, you know, more tolerant, more understanding, more flexible...etceteraUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17417868241817070400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-6942505937476714552008-06-24T09:43:00.000+03:002008-06-24T09:43:00.000+03:00The Problem with families is that they take us for...The Problem with families is that they take us for granted so they don't put much thought into their words, attitudes...etc<BR/>What i experienced is that - i sense ur the same- because i have a stand...because i don't follow blindly and i don't keep my mouth shut and CAN NOT hide my facial expressions...i'm not a comforting person!<BR/>ya3ni mesh ah oo 7ader oo tayeb ma3a ebtesama samega wana men gowaya bal3an salsafeel elly odami. No, I get hurt and i get silent and sad when close family members hurt me or at least act rude in a way i never attempted to follow with any of them.<BR/><BR/>Your statement of being not good enough as a daughter, sister, wife and mother is way to cruel...and let me tell you you're not doing anyone a favore when u treat YOU this way!<BR/><BR/>You are YOU...and for being that true...that's good enough and who ever has a problem pleaaaaaase let them deal with it...you'll be doing them a great favor actually.<BR/><BR/>Hugs ba2a*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3014953887294814940.post-74885349400298325562008-06-24T08:34:00.000+03:002008-06-24T08:34:00.000+03:00Well, its a good thing you're working on your flaw...Well, its a good thing you're working on your flaws, some people (most people don't). There is no such thing as having a smooth relation with your sisters (at least not when you're both staying the same house). You don't seem like someone that's impossible to endure, you might be high maintenance but so is everyone, so don't be too harsh on yourself. Its always smoother with friends, and you seem to be a really good friend and have some really good ones. So enjoy that and hold on to it tight! :)Deeeeeeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01435883568278522928noreply@blogger.com